Nasomi Community FFXI Server :: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra

either share the drama with the rest of us or post somewhere besides main chat

Replacement asks me to PM Warm when I enter the zone which I do. Then Warm sends me a party invite and I /sigh, sneak/invis myself to camp only to see Warm disbanding the party and warping back to Bastok Mines, 5 seconds before I show up. No apology or advance warning for wasting my time. Since others ask for replacements instead of PT leader sometimes, I now have to ask if Warm is in the party.

Rubicund wrote:

I've never seen this Warmsunshine dude. He might be awful. That said, your should be blaming the person inviting you as a replacement, not the leader. Most of the time when someone gets their own replacement without telling the rest of the party, someone else is ready to leave by the time that replacement arrives. Whenever I get invited as a replacement, but ESPECIALLY by a non-leader, I ask if the rest of the party has committed to staying for a while. More often than not, the person follows up a few minutes later apologizing, because the party is actually going to disband within the next 30-45 minutes.

PSA: Before you get a replacement, check with everyone else in the party.

cthalupa wrote:

either share the drama with the rest of us or post somewhere besides main chat

There are countless times where he has wasted my time saying "party 5/6" and refuses to tell us where we're going only for everyone to disband. It's almost as if he does this on purpose so that perhaps his other char gets 'real' invites from other parties? Perhaps he's taking the competition out of circulation? Something is seriously messed up with this guy.

People in his party realize he doesn't know what he's doing so they look for a replacement, and ask me to replace. So, I gear up, get equip, OP, run get to camp. Replacement asks me to PM Warm when I enter the zone which I do. Then Warm sends me a party invite and I /sigh, sneak/invis myself to camp only to see Warm disbanding the party and warping back to Bastok Mines, 5 seconds before I show up. No apology or advance warning for wasting my time. Since others ask for replacements instead of PT leader sometimes, I now have to ask if Warm is in the party.

There is always drama and wasting my time around when it comes to this guy, 100% of the time. I'm calling this guy out a someone who bought the account and has no idea what the hell they are doing in game.

Thought I'd share so he doesn't waste anyone's time. A lot of us have kids now (game is almost 20 years old) and our time is sacred. People know me on the server to not bullshit or cause drama but wasting my time countless times directly or indirectly though other party member replacement invites is crossing the line.

-Rubi

Author:	Rubicund [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 1:22 am ]
Post subject:	Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
Who's man is this? I am not going to mention any details because people in the know already know what I am going to say. Yeah ... ~Rubi

Author:	cthalupa [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 2:19 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
this is a bad post

Author:	cthalupa [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 2:19 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
either share the drama with the rest of us or post somewhere besides main chat

Author:	kurozuka [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 2:23 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
I've pt with him a couple times

Author:	Terron [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 4:01 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
He is Daoyilxwarm. That's all i know.

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Author:	Rubicund [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 6:47 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
cthalupa wrote: either share the drama with the rest of us or post somewhere besides main chat There are countless times where he has wasted my time saying "party 5/6" and refuses to tell us where we're going only for everyone to disband. It's almost as if he does this on purpose so that perhaps his other char gets 'real' invites from other parties? Perhaps he's taking the competition out of circulation? Something is seriously messed up with this guy. People in his party realize he doesn't know what he's doing so they look for a replacement, and ask me to replace. So, I gear up, get equip, OP, run get to camp. Replacement asks me to PM Warm when I enter the zone which I do. Then Warm sends me a party invite and I /sigh, sneak/invis myself to camp only to see Warm disbanding the party and warping back to Bastok Mines, 5 seconds before I show up. No apology or advance warning for wasting my time. Since others ask for replacements instead of PT leader sometimes, I now have to ask if Warm is in the party. There is always drama and wasting my time around when it comes to this guy, 100% of the time. I'm calling this guy out a someone who bought the account and has no idea what the hell they are doing in game. Thought I'd share so he doesn't waste anyone's time. A lot of us have kids now (game is almost 20 years old) and our time is sacred. People know me on the server to not bullshit or cause drama but wasting my time countless times directly or indirectly though other party member replacement invites is crossing the line. -Rubi

Author:	HarleyM [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 7:26 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
Rubicund wrote: Replacement asks me to PM Warm when I enter the zone which I do. Then Warm sends me a party invite and I /sigh, sneak/invis myself to camp only to see Warm disbanding the party and warping back to Bastok Mines, 5 seconds before I show up. No apology or advance warning for wasting my time. Since others ask for replacements instead of PT leader sometimes, I now have to ask if Warm is in the party. I've never seen this Warmsunshine dude. He might be awful. That said, your should be blaming the person inviting you as a replacement, not the leader. Most of the time when someone gets their own replacement without telling the rest of the party, someone else is ready to leave by the time that replacement arrives. Whenever I get invited as a replacement, but ESPECIALLY by a non-leader, I ask if the rest of the party has committed to staying for a while. More often than not, the person follows up a few minutes later apologizing, because the party is actually going to disband within the next 30-45 minutes. PSA: Before you get a replacement, check with everyone else in the party.

Author:	Rubicund [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 12:38 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
HarleyM wrote: Rubicund wrote: Replacement asks me to PM Warm when I enter the zone which I do. Then Warm sends me a party invite and I /sigh, sneak/invis myself to camp only to see Warm disbanding the party and warping back to Bastok Mines, 5 seconds before I show up. No apology or advance warning for wasting my time. Since others ask for replacements instead of PT leader sometimes, I now have to ask if Warm is in the party. I've never seen this Warmsunshine dude. He might be awful. That said, your should be blaming the person inviting you as a replacement, not the leader. Most of the time when someone gets their own replacement without telling the rest of the party, someone else is ready to leave by the time that replacement arrives. Whenever I get invited as a replacement, but ESPECIALLY by a non-leader, I ask if the rest of the party has committed to staying for a while. More often than not, the person follows up a few minutes later apologizing, because the party is actually going to disband within the next 30-45 minutes. PSA: Before you get a replacement, check with everyone else in the party. For sure however there is a pattern with this guy. I will tap into empathy and realize that he may be a very young kid with limited English skills, or autistic, etc. Empathy. Have a good weekend everyone!

Author:	OperationFail [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 3:14 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
Some people are just shitty at making parties and don't think much of your time. I had a PT leader call in his own rep and bounce at the same time one of our DD's was leaving with no rep on the way... We decided to just disband, but the PT leader never canceled his own rep. Had I not /tell the rep, he would have been walking for 15 minutes to an empty camp. People suck. Your story is not unique. This crap happens all the time when people get desperate for a PT and they make their own w/o knowing wtf they are doing.

Author:	cthalupa [ Sat Mar 30, 2019 6:03 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Warmsunshine - I am opening a can of worms here bra
Rubicund wrote: cthalupa wrote: either share the drama with the rest of us or post somewhere besides main chat There are countless times where he has wasted my time saying "party 5/6" and refuses to tell us where we're going only for everyone to disband. It's almost as if he does this on purpose so that perhaps his other char gets 'real' invites from other parties? Perhaps he's taking the competition out of circulation? Something is seriously messed up with this guy. People in his party realize he doesn't know what he's doing so they look for a replacement, and ask me to replace. So, I gear up, get equip, OP, run get to camp. Replacement asks me to PM Warm when I enter the zone which I do. Then Warm sends me a party invite and I /sigh, sneak/invis myself to camp only to see Warm disbanding the party and warping back to Bastok Mines, 5 seconds before I show up. No apology or advance warning for wasting my time. Since others ask for replacements instead of PT leader sometimes, I now have to ask if Warm is in the party. There is always drama and wasting my time around when it comes to this guy, 100% of the time. I'm calling this guy out a someone who bought the account and has no idea what the hell they are doing in game. Thought I'd share so he doesn't waste anyone's time. A lot of us have kids now (game is almost 20 years old) and our time is sacred. People know me on the server to not bullshit or cause drama but wasting my time countless times directly or indirectly though other party member replacement invites is crossing the line. -Rubi yay I will avoid invites from him

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