im trying to get my friend to play on the server. when he creates his account it takes him to an error page but he cant use that username or email again. so for some reason it still makes the account but he never gets the verification email. and i cant get on naschat to talk to nasomi because flash wont work on my browser for some reason
HELP!

Did your friend try re-sending the verification email? I had the same problem and I was on the verge of giving up, but I eventually noticed a tiny "resend verification email" button on one of the login pages. I looked just now and I didn't see it, so it might be on that error page that you mentioned.