The absolute last thing you want to do on this game is to think in absolutes. Every thing is situational. Think about your party setup, the mob you're fighting and/or the goal of what you're doing and choose the item that complements all of the above. There are very few items that are the best for every possible situation.
Ok, while i completely agree with you on it all being situational. I'm wondering which body piece is better for maintaining hate. If i'm not hitting a mob, do I want accuracy to hit it more or just don't bother and go for the Enmity +2. I'm using hauby in my weaponskill gearset regardless, because it helps a lot with Vorpal Blade.