The connector tip is definately the part I would warn people about, because breaking that plug would turn a cheap sensor swap into a bigger headache. For anyone finding this later, the location under the cup holder next to the parking brake matches what the others described, and an ABS-capable scanner is still the first step so you are not guessing at the ESC light. Odd casino links like
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