So I am extremely happy to have found this place. Not only that, but I've convinced my wife to join me. Here's the thing, while I haven't dual boxed myself, and my wife is set up on a separate computer, how do I make sure Nasomi doesn't mistake us as an exploiter? I realize the potential for if she (my wife) gets into it, that we could potentially have a 4 character party between us, but we'd all be spewing from the same IP. I'm not looking to exploit or take away the game I love from anyone, so I understand Nasomi's vigilance in making sure those people don't make a home here, I just want to make sure I am not mistaken for one of them.

I'd start by not mining together. There are plenty of people playing from the same house, so surely this isn't too big a deal. Might be as simple as popping into IRC during the week to let Nas know.

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There's no robust way to differentiate who is on what account/computer, when users are behind the same router and sharing an IP. That's why the multibox rules are per household, and you would be tempting the wrath of the banhammer by attempting to have a 4 person party on one IP. I would just use the 2 permitted "mains" per household, and make sure you never perform HELM together.