Jammah16 wrote:
Well i will get it and if i don't then oh well
At least i tried to use the forum
Might be better off if i shout in game
For help instead of using this forum

Absolutely, of course... it's completely fine to ask for help. You truly never know what is possible until you ask.
But I can't help but feel there is a slight disconnect, from the reality of what goes in to actually camping for sometimes days (depending on how much playtime you can devote in a block of time) just to get a ToD, and THEN camping to go for a pop/claim which is often against serious competition, and then the harsh reality of how hard the fight is if you don't have the right jobs (such as EVA tank, RDM, BRD).
I'll make the point shorter and simple: Go out to the zone, try for yourself a little the experience of killing PHs, get a ToD, maybe even watch someone attempt a kill. It might adjust your point of view.