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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 7:38 am 
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Shambles wrote:
The numbers are fine. The level sync is fine. Making parties is entirely possible at every level range - this coming from an European with a Maat’s cap.

With that being said, there are other factors that play an important role on whether you’re invited to a party or not. I will not go into detail on all of them, but rather focus on what I believe is a blind spot of yours: reputation.

Back in November 2018, I had barely gotten my subjob and I was leveling my white mage. You invited me. We exped in dunes, and you started being abusive to a party member. We told you to stop. You didn’t. After a few minutes, you proceeded to kick me saying and I quote “sorry bro, I found someone with a PL so you’re not needed anymore”. To which I replied “everyone leave this clown and let’s go xp”, which we did, and we had fun, without your toxicity tainting our experience.

To put it simply: you could be seeking on BRD and have a PL in your search comment, with rank 10 and whatnot, and I wouldn’t invite you to my party even for money.

You were an asshole, always have been, and as proven in this thread, continue to be. You’re the number one on my blist for a reason.

I hope you find this information useful.
Have a nice day.


Damn bro. I'm glad you got that out of your system homie. You held that in for over 2 years. But I gotta tell you is that I don't remember you at all. If I hurt you that bad for you to explode like this then all I can say is sorry. It's funny though without even know you at all you're leaving only your side of the story and forgetting to mention what you or the other player did in the party. Classic case of denial and entitlement. It's rare for people to be abusive in this server so you're obviously exaggerating. Most I do is when the whm's don't heal properly such only using cure 1 or don't have any other spells and they actually go in and melee I will give instructions and if they ignore those instructions of course i'm going to kick them. So once again, you only telling 1 side of the story for your benefit. And the fact that you held this in for so long is sort of discrediting and hearsay. And by the way I do write players name down on a notepad list that play like the way I mention to never invite them again. I don't see your name on there.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 7:43 am 
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cthalupa wrote:
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parz wrote:
people have ideas all the time, this is just a bad idea, not a personal attack. Many people have explained why what you're requesting is detrimental to the server, and told you of other options. Ironically you accuse these people of not listening to you and "just state their opinions"

saying this in the nicest way possible, this probably isnt the server for you, and you would probably find something closer to what you want in other options. gl


Nah, If I wanted to leave I would've. I do like this server. Just some changes would be great. People said that bad things happens with no lvl restrictions it happens on EVERY server, no it doesn't.

I don't want to get into a discussion about eden vs nasomi but there are some nice changes on eden that nasomi can benefit from. The unrestricted lvl sync. People don't ding 75 in valk down there... and they have server wide shouts... they don't negative spam like the way people mention. LIKE I SAID I DON'T WANT AN EDEN VS NASOMI. so don't start. Just stating those changes aren't as bad as people think they would be.

Until they made the mob pull limits and power level XP nerf changes, people did in fact level to 75 in the dunes on eden, or other low level zones.


Ok, but they don't problem any more and don't lvl in valk either? Nasomi doesn't have that problem either. By what you said, when nasomi first started there was a larger lvl sync too but now it doesn't have it any more either. Thing's change for the better. But I can sense that you weren't trying to be rude or antagonistic with your comment, just saying what they had, which is cool.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 9:11 am 
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Guscles wrote:
Shambles wrote:
The numbers are fine. The level sync is fine. Making parties is entirely possible at every level range - this coming from an European with a Maat’s cap.

With that being said, there are other factors that play an important role on whether you’re invited to a party or not. I will not go into detail on all of them, but rather focus on what I believe is a blind spot of yours: reputation.

Back in November 2018, I had barely gotten my subjob and I was leveling my white mage. You invited me. We exped in dunes, and you started being abusive to a party member. We told you to stop. You didn’t. After a few minutes, you proceeded to kick me saying and I quote “sorry bro, I found someone with a PL so you’re not needed anymore”. To which I replied “everyone leave this clown and let’s go xp”, which we did, and we had fun, without your toxicity tainting our experience.

To put it simply: you could be seeking on BRD and have a PL in your search comment, with rank 10 and whatnot, and I wouldn’t invite you to my party even for money.

You were an asshole, always have been, and as proven in this thread, continue to be. You’re the number one on my blist for a reason.

I hope you find this information useful.
Have a nice day.


Damn bro. I'm glad you got that out of your system homie. You held that in for over 2 years. But I gotta tell you is that I don't remember you at all. If I hurt you that bad for you to explode like this then all I can say is sorry. It's funny though without even know you at all you're leaving only your side of the story and forgetting to mention what you or the other player did in the party. Classic case of denial and entitlement. It's rare for people to be abusive in this server so you're obviously exaggerating. Most I do is when the whm's don't heal properly such only using cure 1 or don't have any other spells and they actually go in and melee I will give instructions and if they ignore those instructions of course i'm going to kick them. So once again, you only telling 1 side of the story for your benefit. And the fact that you held this in for so long is sort of discrediting and hearsay. And by the way I do write players name down on a notepad list that play like the way I mention to never invite them again. I don't see your name on there.


If it helps you remember, this happened about 2-3 weeks before your character was banned for RMT and you were forced to start over. Hopefully you'll be able to pinpoint exactly when this was, I'm sure such an experience is not something you'll easily forget :)

In "my side of the story", you were abusive to a new player who didn't even have their subjob unlocked because they weren't doing as much damage as you were expecting them to, and we called you out on it multiple times to stop it. And I was playing like any whm would at that level, so no issues going yolo in melee range. At this point I've exped with pretty much everyone on this server, and I can say with a clear conscience that only Crossaint/Luzifer has ever expressed discontent with me in a party - and that's when I told him I didn't feel like bringing my PL along. He called me names!

Call it hearsay all you want, I call it having a strong memory - it's sometimes a bliss, and sometimes a curse :P Anyone with basic reading comprehension will have already picked up on the fact that you're overly defensive and toxic from your replies on this thread alone. I believe my work here is done.

Have a good life.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 2:12 pm 
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Does anyone else feel like all this post has done is make it more difficult for this guy to get a party?

To add my 2 cents, I usually make a group with friends or join them and we pick up the last spot or 2 from who is LFG. I have noticed when I need to pick up a member the jobs seeking aren't exactly the best jobs for XPing. I see a ton of mage classes and Thfs usually but that has never stopped me from being in a quality party.

Make some friends, get friends to XP, #winning


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 2:15 pm 
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Nazgul wrote:
Does anyone else feel like all this post has done is make it more difficult for this guy to get a party?

To add my 2 cents, I usually make a group with friends or join them and we pick up the last spot or 2 from who is LFG. I have noticed when I need to pick up a member the jobs seeking aren't exactly the best jobs for XPing. I see a ton of mage classes and Thfs usually but that has never stopped me from being in a quality party.

Make some friends, get friends to XP, #winning


Exactly. lol. This guy is seriously lucky i already have 2 maats caps and was much more fond of soloing for a large portion of my xp and never made a pt except while playing whm and smn! Id def never invite this dude in an alternate universe where i make parties!

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 2:51 pm 
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I decided to create an LS strictly for those LFG at any given time. I think a central location that you can pop into and do a /message to see what jobs people are looking to level that day, what locations, what times etc.. can help with the dearth of invites that people are seeing. It may also help those want to do "burn" PT's.. Smn..blm..Bst etc. I know folks already use 2 LS's very often, so if it doesnt work, it doesnt work. But giving it a try.

If interested in a pearl give me a shout in-game on Pan or on discord at ItsGiodude#2888

Couple notes*
-I dont plan on doing any in-game recruiting, so everyone I pearl will be a sackholder, and free to give one to whomever / or maybe no sackholders and everyone go through me? I'm not sure whats the best way for this to minimize potential disrupters actually. Open to insights

-This wont become an HNM/EGLS. I dont want it to dilute from its main purpose of helping people find groups and levels, however obviously if people need help on Missions, BC/KS runs, AF quests, LB's, Smn fights etc then that would be fine imo.

There is also an accompanying discord that will further the process I think. Will provide address in LS chat message.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 3:14 pm 
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Shambles wrote:
Guscles wrote:
Shambles wrote:
The numbers are fine. The level sync is fine. Making parties is entirely possible at every level range - this coming from an European with a Maat’s cap.

With that being said, there are other factors that play an important role on whether you’re invited to a party or not. I will not go into detail on all of them, but rather focus on what I believe is a blind spot of yours: reputation.

Back in November 2018, I had barely gotten my subjob and I was leveling my white mage. You invited me. We exped in dunes, and you started being abusive to a party member. We told you to stop. You didn’t. After a few minutes, you proceeded to kick me saying and I quote “sorry bro, I found someone with a PL so you’re not needed anymore”. To which I replied “everyone leave this clown and let’s go xp”, which we did, and we had fun, without your toxicity tainting our experience.

To put it simply: you could be seeking on BRD and have a PL in your search comment, with rank 10 and whatnot, and I wouldn’t invite you to my party even for money.

You were an asshole, always have been, and as proven in this thread, continue to be. You’re the number one on my blist for a reason.

I hope you find this information useful.
Have a nice day.


Damn bro. I'm glad you got that out of your system homie. You held that in for over 2 years. But I gotta tell you is that I don't remember you at all. If I hurt you that bad for you to explode like this then all I can say is sorry. It's funny though without even know you at all you're leaving only your side of the story and forgetting to mention what you or the other player did in the party. Classic case of denial and entitlement. It's rare for people to be abusive in this server so you're obviously exaggerating. Most I do is when the whm's don't heal properly such only using cure 1 or don't have any other spells and they actually go in and melee I will give instructions and if they ignore those instructions of course i'm going to kick them. So once again, you only telling 1 side of the story for your benefit. And the fact that you held this in for so long is sort of discrediting and hearsay. And by the way I do write players name down on a notepad list that play like the way I mention to never invite them again. I don't see your name on there.


If it helps you remember, this happened about 2-3 weeks before your character was banned for RMT and you were forced to start over. Hopefully you'll be able to pinpoint exactly when this was, I'm sure such an experience is not something you'll easily forget :)

In "my side of the story", you were abusive to a new player who didn't even have their subjob unlocked because they weren't doing as much damage as you were expecting them to, and we called you out on it multiple times to stop it. And I was playing like any whm would at that level, so no issues going yolo in melee range. At this point I've exped with pretty much everyone on this server, and I can say with a clear conscience that only Crossaint/Luzifer has ever expressed discontent with me in a party - and that's when I told him I didn't feel like bringing my PL along. He called me names!

Call it hearsay all you want, I call it having a strong memory - it's sometimes a bliss, and sometimes a curse :P Anyone with basic reading comprehension will have already picked up on the fact that you're overly defensive and toxic from your replies on this thread alone. I believe my work here is done.

Have a good life.


That’s where your story doesn’t add up. You’re saying my character was banned for RMT. You’re just being an asshole now and trying to ruin my my reputation. My characters have never been banned. Guscles is still active daily. I felt sorry for you having to hold that anger inside for over 2 years but now i don’t give a shit. You’re just an idiot. And most likely deserved the interaction and negative experience that you had. Its funny though how people say its never their fault someone was an an asshole to them and you’re saying people are RMTs. Saying your memory is strong...but I’ve never been banned.


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Looks like he's well aware he isn't the first to bring this up since he's literally been making the same complaint for two years now.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 3:36 pm 
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Aeroo wrote:
Nazgul wrote:
Does anyone else feel like all this post has done is make it more difficult for this guy to get a party?

To add my 2 cents, I usually make a group with friends or join them and we pick up the last spot or 2 from who is LFG. I have noticed when I need to pick up a member the jobs seeking aren't exactly the best jobs for XPing. I see a ton of mage classes and Thfs usually but that has never stopped me from being in a quality party.

Make some friends, get friends to XP, #winning


Exactly. lol. This guy is seriously lucky i already have 2 maats caps and was much more fond of soloing for a large portion of my xp and never made a pt except while playing whm and smn! Id def never invite this dude in an alternate universe where i make parties!


You think anyone cares about your maat cap? Imagine having an inflated ego over a video game item. Be humble you fucking clown.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 24, 2020 3:42 pm 
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Guscles wrote:
Aeroo wrote:
Nazgul wrote:
Does anyone else feel like all this post has done is make it more difficult for this guy to get a party?

To add my 2 cents, I usually make a group with friends or join them and we pick up the last spot or 2 from who is LFG. I have noticed when I need to pick up a member the jobs seeking aren't exactly the best jobs for XPing. I see a ton of mage classes and Thfs usually but that has never stopped me from being in a quality party.

Make some friends, get friends to XP, #winning


Exactly. lol. This guy is seriously lucky i already have 2 maats caps and was much more fond of soloing for a large portion of my xp and never made a pt except while playing whm and smn! Id def never invite this dude in an alternate universe where i make parties!


You think anyone cares about your maat cap? Imagine having an inflated ego over a video game item. Be humble you fucking clown.


Imagine suggesting an idea on the forum of a 20-yr old game, people telling you it's a bad one, and getting upset over it.

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