They still want your phone number and other personal info off discord?

I don't think so. The only thing i had to do on discord was get an IP exemption for my son to play and they wanted pics of my setup and asked a ton of questions... they really try their best to make sure everyone is not multiboxing and tbh the game is actually a lot more fun only playing on one character again and the party's arent just 3 ppl playing 2 accounts each and everyone seems to be playing an important part doing their jobs etc. Idk i find it very enjoyable here and the community is great.