I don't see whats wrong here... he isn't overly flamming you. He's not cursing or being too rude. He is explaining how you should do your job to benefit the party experiences gain. You weren't prepared at all and didn't know so whats he supposed to do? How would you like him to explain how to play to you? Thfs are supposed to sata right away and if you don't see them setting up right away then type it in chat, make a macro for them to set up with a nice call until they get used to it and do it naturally. Players like this are disgusting too that don't want to learn and get triggered when they have to do something besides being lazy in a party.
i agree that players that cannot take criticism are defeating themselves.
However, I took it all in stride. From the very beginning. I offered to leave the party because i wasnt prepared with a ranged attack. I even asked if I should find a replacement, and what job they would like.
I was using SATA every minute the counter on "Recast" was down. I landed a few of them, but since there was no initial voker or a skill chain order, it was next to impossible to do it consistently.
not to mention the PL was pulling the hate right against the hallway wall.
It wasnt a "flamming" but an expectation from a level I was just not at. You invite a lowbie 31-32 you should know off the top that they dont have Viper Bite yet.