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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 2:57 pm 
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Cherry_Bombs wrote:
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Last night after a 453 hour Nid watch party our group's sleep and a second group's RDM zoned into Valk at the same time and both holding parties were completed at the same time. We randomed, my group lost and so we left for Qufim. Does it suck? Yea. Does it help keep the peace some? I can only hope. Just don't be dicks, not that hard. Unless you work 2 jobs, you have no real excuse not to wait in line for your groups turn.


I thought I'd see mention of this in this thread this morning. There's more to it than two groups simply following the rules and /randoming for claim on Valk. The part that gets me is the "just don't be dicks" part, which you guys were clearly being.

First of all, I do work a job 8AM to 5PM, 40-50 hours a week. And every day I get home, there's at least 2 or 3 holding parties out in BuBu. Same people every night. I rarely have the opportunity to go in and merit. And you know, that's fine; it's a little upsetting that people who don't have jobs/live on the east coast basically have claim, but that's just the way it is I guess.

So, I went out there about 7PM EST, thereabouts, and start putting my party together while it's empty. When I have about 4 people ready to go, Impulse (I think) rolls up and goes in, which is not something I had a problem with seeing as how we weren't ready and still waiting on our RDM to show who was still going to be a little while. Shortly thereafter we get our 5th and are just waiting on our RDM to finish up at Nid before we go in.

About an hour and a half later, while most of us had already been there waiting for nearly 2 hours, our RDM shows up at nearly the exact same time as DB shows up and they earnestly expect us to just give up our position because "their RDM got their first". They started spouting off something about the "rules" or whatever, which I can honestly say I didn't really give a shit about in that particular instance because I had people who had been waiting there for 2 hours and I'm not about to give up our spot because some arbitrary rule, that I never agreed to; never had a say in; was about to fuck us over, says I have to have a sleeper in my party in order to be holding the position. It's just not happening. Sorry.

Our RDM decides he's feeling lucky and says he's going to roll and at that point I really couldn't care either way what happens because it's all quite frankly a load of horseshit. He rolls, we win and they leave.

My point to all of this is that: The rules are arbitrary, a lot of us never agreed to them. Have some god damn courtesy.


Yeah, I wouldn't have randomed. I would have just entered. Like Wolfhardt is saying, it boils down to people not being asshats, which I know is tough.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 3:05 pm 
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Cherry_Bombs wrote:
Tsukkasa wrote:
Last night after a 453 hour Nid watch party our group's sleep and a second group's RDM zoned into Valk at the same time and both holding parties were completed at the same time. We randomed, my group lost and so we left for Qufim. Does it suck? Yea. Does it help keep the peace some? I can only hope. Just don't be dicks, not that hard. Unless you work 2 jobs, you have no real excuse not to wait in line for your groups turn.


I thought I'd see mention of this in this thread this morning. There's more to it than two groups simply following the rules and /randoming for claim on Valk. The part that gets me is the "just don't be dicks" part, which you guys were clearly being.

First of all, I do work a job 8AM to 5PM, 40-50 hours a week. And every day I get home, there's at least 2 or 3 holding parties out in BuBu. Same people every night. I rarely have the opportunity to go in and merit. And you know, that's fine; it's a little upsetting that people who don't have jobs/live on the east coast basically have claim, but that's just the way it is I guess.

So, I went out there about 7PM EST, thereabouts, and start putting my party together while it's empty. When I have about 4 people ready to go, Impulse (I think) rolls up and goes in, which is not something I had a problem with seeing as how we weren't ready and still waiting on our RDM to show who was still going to be a little while. Shortly thereafter we get our 5th and are just waiting on our RDM to finish up at Nid before we go in.

About an hour and a half later, while most of us had already been there waiting for nearly 2 hours, our RDM shows up at nearly the exact same time as DB shows up and they earnestly expect us to just give up our position because "their RDM got their first". They started spouting off something about the "rules" or whatever, which I can honestly say I didn't really give a shit about in that particular instance because I had people who had been waiting there for 2 hours and I'm not about to give up our spot because some arbitrary rule, that I never agreed to; never had a say in; was about to fuck us over, says I have to have a sleeper in my party in order to be holding the position. It's just not happening. Sorry.

Our RDM decides he's feeling lucky and says he's going to roll and at that point I really couldn't care either way what happens because it's all quite frankly a load of horseshit. He rolls, we win and they leave.

My point to all of this is that: The rules are arbitrary, a lot of us never agreed to them. Have some god damn courtesy.


Wait, what? The first thing out of my mouth when your RDM and I showed up, at the same time, was "lets random for zone". You disagreed and starting spouting off at the mouth, which included telling Goren to suck your dick (but "DrAConiCBubU sO iMmaTure). Your RDM felt so bad that he sent 3 of us tells apologizing. This is the kind of bs that is said about DB that's a complete lie. Yes, you had a thf and 3 blms there for a couple hours. We had a Thf and a BLM there for hours also. The common thing missing from both was a sleeper. Which both sleeps showed up after Nid, at the same time. All I wanted to do was random, which we did finally. When we lost, we left immediately. If you want ss from it, lmk, I have em.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 3:06 pm 
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KingLoser wrote:
Cherry_Bombs wrote:
Tsukkasa wrote:
Last night after a 453 hour Nid watch party our group's sleep and a second group's RDM zoned into Valk at the same time and both holding parties were completed at the same time. We randomed, my group lost and so we left for Qufim. Does it suck? Yea. Does it help keep the peace some? I can only hope. Just don't be dicks, not that hard. Unless you work 2 jobs, you have no real excuse not to wait in line for your groups turn.


I thought I'd see mention of this in this thread this morning. There's more to it than two groups simply following the rules and /randoming for claim on Valk. The part that gets me is the "just don't be dicks" part, which you guys were clearly being.

First of all, I do work a job 8AM to 5PM, 40-50 hours a week. And every day I get home, there's at least 2 or 3 holding parties out in BuBu. Same people every night. I rarely have the opportunity to go in and merit. And you know, that's fine; it's a little upsetting that people who don't have jobs/live on the east coast basically have claim, but that's just the way it is I guess.

So, I went out there about 7PM EST, thereabouts, and start putting my party together while it's empty. When I have about 4 people ready to go, Impulse (I think) rolls up and goes in, which is not something I had a problem with seeing as how we weren't ready and still waiting on our RDM to show who was still going to be a little while. Shortly thereafter we get our 5th and are just waiting on our RDM to finish up at Nid before we go in.

About an hour and a half later, while most of us had already been there waiting for nearly 2 hours, our RDM shows up at nearly the exact same time as DB shows up and they earnestly expect us to just give up our position because "their RDM got their first". They started spouting off something about the "rules" or whatever, which I can honestly say I didn't really give a shit about in that particular instance because I had people who had been waiting there for 2 hours and I'm not about to give up our spot because some arbitrary rule, that I never agreed to; never had a say in; was about to fuck us over, says I have to have a sleeper in my party in order to be holding the position. It's just not happening. Sorry.

Our RDM decides he's feeling lucky and says he's going to roll and at that point I really couldn't care either way what happens because it's all quite frankly a load of horseshit. He rolls, we win and they leave.

My point to all of this is that: The rules are arbitrary, a lot of us never agreed to them. Have some god damn courtesy.


Yeah, I wouldn't have randomed. I would have just entered. Like Wolfhardt is saying, it boils down to people not being asshats, which I know is tough.


So, if they don't have a sleep there at all then it's now a holding party? They had no rdm there, King. You are saying 3 blms and a thf can now do dyna efficiently and hold a zone?

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 3:23 pm 
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Wolffhardt wrote:
lol like I said... trying to enforce an agreement that the people you're discussing with didn't play a role in forming is going to have issues sometimes. I think people ignore common sense/spirit of the creation of the holding party agreement when it suits them, and that those people commonly have a blue pearl on. That's all I was saying.

Obviously... If an entire group has been there for 2hours besides a RDM, and your entire group shows up while the zone isn't empty.. and their RDM shows up before the zone does become empty? The 4-5 people standing there for hours is going to enter next, and not really care about the made up rules you're talking about.

If the zone empties, and the RDM still isn't there, then they aren't ready to enter when they can.


This would be fine and all if people didn't flat out jump us when we would show up in Bubu and wait. We had issues twice with the same person in Bubu who would jump us, with no reason other than the idea that DB has more Bubu groups than other shells and afk holds the zone, which I know for a fact isn't the case with my group. It's a little annoying when the people who were around to help make the rules bends them or just flat out ignores them to suit their needs for the day. My group follows them to the T, we don't hold a zone line until we have everything we need there and then move into line. In the end it's very "whatever". I will continue to obey the rules that previous groups have made.

Anyways, thanks guys for the read. the only way this gets any better is if people can agree to the rules made in the past. We have been helped by and fucked by the rules many times in my group. We either run the zone or we suck it up and move on or miss dyna that day if too full. It is what it is.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 3:30 pm 
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Tsukkasa wrote:
This would be fine and all if people didn't flat out jump us when we would show up in Bubu and wait. We had issues twice with the same person in Bubu who would jump us, with no reason other than the idea that DB has more Bubu groups than other shells and afk holds the zone, which I know for a fact isn't the case with my group. It's a little annoying when the people who were around to help make the rules bends them or just flat out ignores them to suit their needs for the day. My group follows them to the T, we don't hold a zone line until we have everything we need there and then move into line. In the end it's very "whatever". I will continue to obey the rules that previous groups have made.


I've seen you(Summit) standing with one group of DB, then as they enter you go stand with your group. But keep pushing the narrative that DB does nothing wrong. There's a reason you're called "DraconicBuburimu" and "DunesBallad". I'm fairly certain I've seen some of you(DB) abusing the fact that some Dyna zones don't share a lockout with the others(another thing I've been waiting to see fixed/people punished for). Not to mention the times there's 3+ groups from DB sitting out at the heiros but none of them are ready to go in, so the zone sits empty for 20+ minutes.

Edit: Forgot to add the threats of mpk that you've sent my way multiple times.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 3:30 pm 
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Tsukkasa wrote:
Cherry_Bombs wrote:
Tsukkasa wrote:
Last night after a 453 hour Nid watch party our group's sleep and a second group's RDM zoned into Valk at the same time and both holding parties were completed at the same time. We randomed, my group lost and so we left for Qufim. Does it suck? Yea. Does it help keep the peace some? I can only hope. Just don't be dicks, not that hard. Unless you work 2 jobs, you have no real excuse not to wait in line for your groups turn.


I thought I'd see mention of this in this thread this morning. There's more to it than two groups simply following the rules and /randoming for claim on Valk. The part that gets me is the "just don't be dicks" part, which you guys were clearly being.

First of all, I do work a job 8AM to 5PM, 40-50 hours a week. And every day I get home, there's at least 2 or 3 holding parties out in BuBu. Same people every night. I rarely have the opportunity to go in and merit. And you know, that's fine; it's a little upsetting that people who don't have jobs/live on the east coast basically have claim, but that's just the way it is I guess.

So, I went out there about 7PM EST, thereabouts, and start putting my party together while it's empty. When I have about 4 people ready to go, Impulse (I think) rolls up and goes in, which is not something I had a problem with seeing as how we weren't ready and still waiting on our RDM to show who was still going to be a little while. Shortly thereafter we get our 5th and are just waiting on our RDM to finish up at Nid before we go in.

About an hour and a half later, while most of us had already been there waiting for nearly 2 hours, our RDM shows up at nearly the exact same time as DB shows up and they earnestly expect us to just give up our position because "their RDM got their first". They started spouting off something about the "rules" or whatever, which I can honestly say I didn't really give a shit about in that particular instance because I had people who had been waiting there for 2 hours and I'm not about to give up our spot because some arbitrary rule, that I never agreed to; never had a say in; was about to fuck us over, says I have to have a sleeper in my party in order to be holding the position. It's just not happening. Sorry.

Our RDM decides he's feeling lucky and says he's going to roll and at that point I really couldn't care either way what happens because it's all quite frankly a load of horseshit. He rolls, we win and they leave.

My point to all of this is that: The rules are arbitrary, a lot of us never agreed to them. Have some god damn courtesy.


Wait, what? The first thing out of my mouth when your RDM and I showed up, at the same time, was "lets random for zone". You disagreed and starting spouting off at the mouth, which included telling Goren to suck your dick (but "DrAConiCBubU sO iMmaTure). Your RDM felt so bad that he sent 3 of us tells apologizing. This is the kind of bs that is said about DB that's a complete lie. Yes, you had a thf and 3 blms there for a couple hours. We had a Thf and a BLM there for hours also. The common thing missing from both was a sleeper. Which both sleeps showed up after Nid, at the same time. All I wanted to do was random, which we did finally. When we lost, we left immediately. If you want ss from it, lmk, I have em.


I distinctly remember "FIRST". And yeah, suck my dick. The only other person there was a BLM and THF *which* we were still there before them.

But you see, that's the point. I'm not going to /random you for a spot I had been there with 4 other people waiting on for 2 hours. He decided to do it. If we had lost, whatever, take it and go fuck yourself.

I know he felt bad, but that's on him. I don't feel bad.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 3:57 pm 
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Kazen wrote:
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This would be fine and all if people didn't flat out jump us when we would show up in Bubu and wait. We had issues twice with the same person in Bubu who would jump us, with no reason other than the idea that DB has more Bubu groups than other shells and afk holds the zone, which I know for a fact isn't the case with my group. It's a little annoying when the people who were around to help make the rules bends them or just flat out ignores them to suit their needs for the day. My group follows them to the T, we don't hold a zone line until we have everything we need there and then move into line. In the end it's very "whatever". I will continue to obey the rules that previous groups have made.


1) I've seen you(Summit) standing with one group of DB, then as they enter you go stand with your group. But keep pushing the narrative that DB does nothing wrong. There's a reason you're called "DraconicBuburimu" and "DunesBallad".

2) I'm fairly certain I've seen some of you(DB) abusing the fact that some Dyna zones don't share a lockout with the others(another thing I've been waiting to see fixed/people punished for). Not to mention the times there's 3+ groups from DB sitting out at the heiros but none of them are ready to go in, so the zone sits empty for 20+ minutes.

3) Edit: Forgot to add the threats of mpk that you've sent my way multiple times.


I have numbers your things just to make it easier to answer to.

1) I do afk in zones, but it is not to hold the zone. Example, I am afk at Valk right now and should still be there. I had a bazaar up and am able to join my group as soon as I get home. Once our group is no longer afk, then we get in line. If you saw that I was "sitting with another group" then moved to mine, it was because I was afk and not in line. If it would make it easier for all involved I can not afk in zone and just zone in when I login. I am not here to cause issues, i dont want to stress about valk/bubu/whatever. I want to login, do my dyna or event and have fun. It's that simple.

2) I never heard of this and am not in any way shape or form for this. I am not about to have my account suspended.

3) I sent multiple times? To you? I sent it once to Aeroo and apologized for it after because I legitimately shouldn't have acted like that and felt bad. However, you and Aeroo did get me tilted by jumping us when we did nothing but allowed Yes to go in front of us.

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Tsukkasa wrote:
3) I sent multiple times? To you? I sent it once to Aeroo and apologized for it after because I legitimately shouldn't have acted like that and felt bad. However, you and Aeroo did get me tilted by jumping us when we did nothing but allowed Yes to go in front of us.


Typing in say "Diaga" in autotranslate and saying "I'll Diaga" when both Aeroo and I are talking in say with you guys, but never sent it to me. K

Edit: Love how you glossed over the DB (former?)MO of afking with multiple groups at the heiros. Just because YOU stop doing it, doesn't mean your LS will, which leads me to not respecting your LS' places in the magical "line".

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Cherry_Bombs wrote:
Tsukkasa wrote:
Cherry_Bombs wrote:

I thought I'd see mention of this in this thread this morning. There's more to it than two groups simply following the rules and /randoming for claim on Valk. The part that gets me is the "just don't be dicks" part, which you guys were clearly being.

First of all, I do work a job 8AM to 5PM, 40-50 hours a week. And every day I get home, there's at least 2 or 3 holding parties out in BuBu. Same people every night. I rarely have the opportunity to go in and merit. And you know, that's fine; it's a little upsetting that people who don't have jobs/live on the east coast basically have claim, but that's just the way it is I guess.

So, I went out there about 7PM EST, thereabouts, and start putting my party together while it's empty. When I have about 4 people ready to go, Impulse (I think) rolls up and goes in, which is not something I had a problem with seeing as how we weren't ready and still waiting on our RDM to show who was still going to be a little while. Shortly thereafter we get our 5th and are just waiting on our RDM to finish up at Nid before we go in.

About an hour and a half later, while most of us had already been there waiting for nearly 2 hours, our RDM shows up at nearly the exact same time as DB shows up and they earnestly expect us to just give up our position because "their RDM got their first". They started spouting off something about the "rules" or whatever, which I can honestly say I didn't really give a shit about in that particular instance because I had people who had been waiting there for 2 hours and I'm not about to give up our spot because some arbitrary rule, that I never agreed to; never had a say in; was about to fuck us over, says I have to have a sleeper in my party in order to be holding the position. It's just not happening. Sorry.

Our RDM decides he's feeling lucky and says he's going to roll and at that point I really couldn't care either way what happens because it's all quite frankly a load of horseshit. He rolls, we win and they leave.

My point to all of this is that: The rules are arbitrary, a lot of us never agreed to them. Have some god damn courtesy.


Wait, what? The first thing out of my mouth when your RDM and I showed up, at the same time, was "lets random for zone". You disagreed and starting spouting off at the mouth, which included telling Goren to suck your dick (but "DrAConiCBubU sO iMmaTure). Your RDM felt so bad that he sent 3 of us tells apologizing. This is the kind of bs that is said about DB that's a complete lie. Yes, you had a thf and 3 blms there for a couple hours. We had a Thf and a BLM there for hours also. The common thing missing from both was a sleeper. Which both sleeps showed up after Nid, at the same time. All I wanted to do was random, which we did finally. When we lost, we left immediately. If you want ss from it, lmk, I have em.


I distinctly remember "FIRST". And yeah, suck my dick. The only other person there was a BLM and THF *which* we were still there before them.

But you see, that's the point. I'm not going to /random you for a spot I had been there with 4 other people waiting on for 2 hours. He decided to do it. If we had lost, whatever, take it and go fuck yourself.

I know he felt bad, but that's on him. I don't feel bad.


I really don't know how to respond to this, tbh. I don't think the "suck my dick" was necessary, but whatever. I am just gonna say the situation got handed and in the end no one entered on one another. Hope you got all the xp and drops. Later.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 24, 2019 4:10 pm 
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Kazen wrote:
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3) I sent multiple times? To you? I sent it once to Aeroo and apologized for it after because I legitimately shouldn't have acted like that and felt bad. However, you and Aeroo did get me tilted by jumping us when we did nothing but allowed Yes to go in front of us.


Typing in say "Diaga" in autotranslate and saying "I'll Diaga" when both Aeroo and I are talking in say with you guys, but never sent it to me. K

Edit: Love how you glossed over the DB (former?)MO of afking with multiple groups at the heiros. Just because YOU stop doing it, doesn't mean your LS will, which leads me to not respecting your LS' places in the magical "line".


Oh, I can't control what everyone else does. Nor am I going to try. But, to say i did not try to apologize and fix my mistakes isn't gonna fly. But don't act like I was the only guilty one. You did not cut DB, you cut my group, which had no previous interactions with you or Aeroo and it did not just happen once. Which is what caused me to tilt. Again, if I said it in say, I am apologized then and I am not above saying I shouldn't have said that and I am very happy I was talked down from my ledge when it happened as well. Either way, these days I just wanna get finished up with my horn and be done with this stupid drama, tbh.

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