Guscles wrote:
Shambles wrote:
The numbers are fine. The level sync is fine. Making parties is entirely possible at every level range - this coming from an European with a Maat’s cap.
With that being said, there are other factors that play an important role on whether you’re invited to a party or not. I will not go into detail on all of them, but rather focus on what I believe is a blind spot of yours: reputation.
Back in November 2018, I had barely gotten my subjob and I was leveling my white mage. You invited me. We exped in dunes, and you started being abusive to a party member. We told you to stop. You didn’t. After a few minutes, you proceeded to kick me saying and I quote “sorry bro, I found someone with a PL so you’re not needed anymore”. To which I replied “everyone leave this clown and let’s go xp”, which we did, and we had fun, without your toxicity tainting our experience.
To put it simply: you could be seeking on BRD and have a PL in your search comment, with rank 10 and whatnot, and I wouldn’t invite you to my party even for money.
You were an asshole, always have been, and as proven in this thread, continue to be. You’re the number one on my blist for a reason.
I hope you find this information useful.
Have a nice day.
Damn bro. I'm glad you got that out of your system homie. You held that in for over 2 years. But I gotta tell you is that I don't remember you at all. If I hurt you that bad for you to explode like this then all I can say is sorry. It's funny though without even know you at all you're leaving only your side of the story and forgetting to mention what you or the other player did in the party. Classic case of denial and entitlement. It's rare for people to be abusive in this server so you're obviously exaggerating. Most I do is when the whm's don't heal properly such only using cure 1 or don't have any other spells and they actually go in and melee I will give instructions and if they ignore those instructions of course i'm going to kick them. So once again, you only telling 1 side of the story for your benefit. And the fact that you held this in for so long is sort of discrediting and hearsay. And by the way I do write players name down on a notepad list that play like the way I mention to never invite them again. I don't see your name on there.
If it helps you remember, this happened about 2-3 weeks before your character was banned for RMT and you were forced to start over. Hopefully you'll be able to pinpoint exactly when this was, I'm sure such an experience is not something you'll easily forget

In "my side of the story", you were abusive to a new player who didn't even have their subjob unlocked because they weren't doing as much damage as you were expecting them to, and we called you out on it multiple times to stop it. And I was playing like any whm would at that level, so no issues going yolo in melee range. At this point I've exped with pretty much everyone on this server, and I can say with a clear conscience that only Crossaint/Luzifer has ever expressed discontent with me in a party - and that's when I told him I didn't feel like bringing my PL along. He called me names!
Call it hearsay all you want, I call it having a strong memory - it's sometimes a bliss, and sometimes a curse

Anyone with basic reading comprehension will have already picked up on the fact that you're overly defensive and toxic from your replies on this thread alone. I believe my work here is done.
Have a good life.